Wednesday, September 25, 2019

{Mex/L.A. 2019} Day FOUR - House building 1

We arrived in Tijuana, Mexico very late on Wednesday, June 5th or very early Thursday, June 6th. 😂 We were a day late because we didn't depart until late in the day, and a day late at that, from Hinkley, CA where we had been stranded for a day and a half (our bus died on Tuesday and Hinkley Bible Church took incredibly good care of us that night and Wednesday). 

But we finally did arrive and slept very soundly once we all got settled at Rancho Solo, the Mexican ministry we were staying at in Tijuana. Sergio is the name of the 80 year old Mexican man who started his own ministry to share the gospel and build houses to provide for the needly. He's got endless stories and is very charismatic. You can't help but love the guy. He's built hundreds, if not thousands, of houses in Tijuana and it's his plans we followed in building this house. Several people on our trip had already built one so with their expertise, along with Sergio's instruction, the building went very fast.

This is what we got done by the end of that day!



Every single day we had some variation of eggs with refried beans and tortillas. All the food was delicious...except eggs make me sick so I can't really say if they were good or not.



Terry and Steven finishing up breakfast. Terry is talking to Tristan, one of the leaders Dan brought from Table in the Wilderness to help him and us.



We were standing just outside the breakfast room when I handed Terry his necklace making supplies. When we set off on the mission trip he gave every person a stringed necklace with a cross charm of their choosing. Later on he would add two more charms, a fish hook for fishing men and a key for the Kingdom. 



Arriving at the building site felt so foreign and strange that first day. We were in the ghetto for sure. That morning, Dan's children, Emmy and Quinn who had stayed behind at Rancho Solo while their dad drive up to Hinkley to fetch us, told us that a fire had broken out on the hillside across from them. No fire department came. Sergio said that's common, both the fire and having no help with it, especially in bad neighborhoods like this one. 



These pictures are taken in a 360 turn to my left. This is across the street from our building site...



...and next door. A fire started on that hillside three days later!



That hillside.



Up the street behind me. Also, Dan got stuck in that hole in the side of the road where the concrete ends. We had to push him out and everyone inside bounced so high.



Empty lot to my left.





Those are the barrels of the neighbors that Sarah D. accidentally started on fire, which actually took place the following day. We had cleaned up some old, but still warm, ashes from the building site's watchfire in order to make a nice fire pit for the family. Sarah dumped them in that black barrel after having mistakenly thought she had been directed and given permission to do so. The owner of the house was so mad! Sergio, our mission host, guide, and planner, talked her down and was even able to share the gospel with her!



Once we disembarked from the vans we went straight to work hauling house building supplies up the hill to the building site. We raised money to pay for all the supplies for the 20x20 foot house. It was quite a steep hill, especially for a family with a special needs 14 year old boy in a decrepit  wheelchair. Also take note of how tall the weeds are on either side of the path. We cleared them away on the third day. 



Noah hauling boards.



Terry too.



Hey that's me again - I'm thankful other people like Lynne and Suzanne took pictures too. And there's also Sarah D. and her daughter Prae. The Mexican woman, Lupita, is the wife and mother of the family we were building the house for! Prior to this their house had been destroyed and they were living in very poor conditions. Sarah and Prae visited and attested to it. Lupita was at present every day, helping and watching, and her humble and content manner really had an effect on me. So often I am not content in who God has made me to be or where He has placed me. Lupita and her fellow countrymen seemed so much more at ease and contented with their difficult circumstances, as if they just accepted their lives as they were from God and got on with it uncomplainingly...unlike me and my culture.



Terry and Becky instruct Noah on how to construct our very first wall. 



When we arrived we first hauled up supplies and then cleared away all the junk that was on this hillside. There had previously been a house there but it had burned down. Sergio helped the family to acquire the land and then they had a 20x20 foot concrete pad poured. 



The guys and whoever was helping with the first wall had it done lightning fast. Here they are explaining things to Lupita right before we set the wall up (Prae is fluent in Spanish and we had a few others who could get along pretty well). 


Boom baby!



This is the other half to the building site where I was working. We had begun painting all those boards for the exterior walls when Sergio had us wait until they were nailed up. Terry's taking the first one over to the wall for nailing on. 



First wall nearly complete.



Lunchtime. 



Denise and I.



This tiny, grubby, flea-infested puppy invaded the building site when he smelled our lunch. We had been warned not to touch the street dogs since they're filthy and they're absolutely everywhere! They really gave me insight into when Paul calls his enemies dogs. Historically dogs are gross! In any case, we could not be rid of the little guy. Look closely and you can see his fleas on his chest and a tick in his ear.



The girls started painting once the wall was secure. 



I took a trip to the bathroom (we had to drive to a local grocery store for a bathroom) and when I returned, Evie and her new shirt (she had outgrown everything else), was covered in blue paint. Whoops. And if you look closely you can see paint on the side of her glasses. It's actually still there three and a half months later. She insists on leaving it as a reminder. 💙



My shoes still have blue paint on them as well. 



The second wall didn't take long either and here we are installing an interior wall that separated the two bedrooms from the living room.



The fourth wall was done and here we were working on the ceiling joists. 



Terry and Steve measuring for the ceiling. 



I climbed a ladder to shoot what was happening on top of the ceiling/loft floor - the guys were going to nail wood sheets down.



Most of the ladies left mid-afternoon to attempt a Vacation Bible School, VBS, down the street. Prior to arriving at the building site, they had no clue if a VBS would work though they prepared everything. Terry and I walked down to check it out just as they had finished. 



There was a small park to the right where they met. They were encouraged that neighborhood kids and some moms came!



Finishing up at the building site.



Tori drew Steve on the window portion that would be cut out the following day. 



Evie met the family's only daughter named Arleth at VBS. She was older than Evie but they seemed to hit it off. Evie just loved her and continued to text her after we got back home. Arleth was a gifted artist and we still have the picture that she drew for Evie on our fridge. 



💜



Terry made little rocks cairns for the youngest boy, Saul, to knock down. 



We got a lot done that first day and we able to leave by about 6:45pm. Here's a video of what we got done that day, plus a look at the neighborhood from the elevated view of the building site. (We had to bring all the supplies into the house for safety. Paul, the father, sat up all night with his guard dog and another guard to protect their house. Otherwise everything would have been stolen. Hence the warm ashes from the fire pit.)

Saturday, September 21, 2019

{Mex/L.A. 2019} Day THREE - Hinkley cares for us while stranded

Day three of our Mexico/L.A. mission trip was supposed to begin in Tijuana, Mexico, where we would start on the first of four days of house building. That did not happen since our bus had died the day before. Thankfully we were rescued at In and Out Burger by a young man named Jesse and his wonderfully giving and loving church in Hinkley, CA. The church members and elders are in the back in orange shirts. Jesse is behind Noah.

They took amazing care of us while we were stuck there. We learned so much about selfless service and heartfelt love. It was like being reunited with long lost family. We came to love each other dearly in less than 24 hours time.



We hadn't gone to sleep until after 1am the previous night but we were up and ready for breakfast by 8am. Here we are singing happy birthday to Sarah. We had four birthdays on the trip!



I am in hardly any photos so I have to take them where I can get them. 



Terry is visiting with Dave in the tank top and Jesse next to him. The bald man behind them was a week old new Christian and was learning much about God's love and provision through how this church took care of us. They made us eggs and sausages and provided pastries and juice. Yum.



Da boys.



Joann and I had spent the night in a separate quiet room on two air mattresses the church had provided. I was so thankful not to have to sleep on a pew and to have a quiet place where I wouldn't be awakened out of my usual light sleep. 



Before we packed up we took a picture of where everyone slept so they could show the church who had been in their pew. 😂



Then we took pictures altogether. We're holding up number threes because that's what day of the trip we were on. 



And a silly one. 



Next the church provided transportation to a church member's home who wanted to host us and let us swim in their pool. 



Many games of chicken were played. 



I initially came out back to see Evie atop this pyramid!



I love it, especially Cole's face. 😂



Mike threw some kids around, this one being Cade. 



...and his daughter Hailey.



I got in as well!



Noah and Evie.



I felt bad that we were dumping so much water out of their pool but our host kept assuring us it was okay. She even let us shower in her house and provided snacks. They were so amazing. 



Pastor Dave with a caricature Sarah drew of him. 



Next they insisted on taking us to the original Del Taco and paying for us all. 😲 They informed us that the Del Taco chain began at this very restaurant but that they changed the recipes so they weren't as good. I'd never eaten at a Del Taco and couldn't tell the difference but it was delicious. Once again we were overwhelmed at their generosity.



Back at the church I took some photos.



They're in the middle of the desert. Hinkley is actually the town that was poisoned in the Erin Brockovich movie, which of course is all true. We drank bottled water. 😂



 I definitely wasn't used to the climate. So strange and barren!



All of our wet things drying off. 



We did some small group bible study. 



We read through the entire book of Philippians every day as well as a short devotional, Spiritual Health Check. 



Me with Savanah and Ashley.



Worship time! 





Such fun.


Next we played a few games of Round Robin, which is ping pong where you take one shot, drop the paddle, and run to the other side of the table where that player is already hitting your ball back and moving opposite them. 

FYI, we weren't just sitting around for no reason. We were essentially stranded. The original plan the previous day had been to drive the bus to San Diego where we would unload and reload into four 15 passenger vans so we could cross the border and drive around Tijuana. However, we were three hours from San Diego without traffic. 

We waited all day for our mission trip leader, Dan, to come up with some way of retrieving us. He finally managed it by 5 or 6pm that evening. Dan, who was our leader through Table in the Wilderness (a ministry in Wyoming we have used many, many times, including his 2011 and 2015 Mex/LA trips), recruited three Mexican drivers and came to our rescue. When they arrived we quickly loaded our baggage and said a grateful goodbye to our new family at Hinkley Bible Church. 



Finally on the road!



We had to stop for dinner though. Chick-fil-A for the win!



They weren't excited at all. 



There's not too many family pictures of us four but here is one. 



We got back in the vans and crossed the border after nightfall. It was very late when we arrived at Rancho Solo, the name of the ministry that we were staying at. Sergio, our Mexican leader, started this ministry and has built thousands of houses through the last 30 or 40 years. He turned 80 shortly after we arrived back home. 



Evie and I slept in a room just out of the camera's view to the left. This was a common room of sorts where we could hang out. 



It was nearing midnight or 1am when Dan gave us some final instructions for the night. We were rather tired, but thankful to finally have arrived.