Friday, July 17, 2015

secret vacation: part 2

After the U2 concert, Terry's secrets didn't end. He wouldn't tell me where we were staying the night and left me to my guesses. Since he used to go to school in Chicago and was very involved in a church there called Lakeside. And actually, in 2008, when Evie was a baby, Terry spoke for Chiko camp at their yearly Lakeside family church camp in Lake Geneva, WI. So there were plenty of overnight options for me to consider.

So anyway, after the concert we headed north out of town, so that limited the choices. I immediately considered the Fong's house, which is where we had stayed at least twice in the past. But the farther north and longer the trip took, the more unsure I became. But at last, even in the dark, surroundings became familiar from pictures and videos I had seen Susanna post on facebook. Yep, we were staying at the Fong's new house! 

So after a very late bedtime and sleeping in, we were able to catch up with Susanna and three of her four boys. Then drove back into the city in order to be tourists. We had no idea what we were going to do really. Terry used a new app to get us some decent parking and we started out walking toward Millennium Park, hoping to find somewhere to eat along the way. 

Terry's not the only one familiar with Chicago though. My mom grew up in a suburb and we visited at least once at year and sometimes twice. But we never did anything that touristy besides a zoo so I don't think I'd ever been to Millennium Park; not that I remember anyway. 

Here's us at the fountain when you enter from the north side. My blue eyes can't handle the full sun of day. Squinty pictures!



Beyond the fountain was this huge pavilion where an orchestra was rehearsing for a performance that evening. It was at this point that I was getting pretty hungry and turning into a diva ("You're not you when you're hungry..."). But there really wasn't anything nearby. So we turned around and headed to the Bean.



The bean! I'd never seen it!  



Everyone is taking selfies and not paying attention to anyone else, so I shouldn't have felt embarrassed, but I always do. I just don't like selfies. But look, there we are! See our reflection? I'm wearing a magenta top and gray skirt and Terry's green and gray...



There we are. 



This one is like advanced Where's Waldo. We're pretty much in the middle, though a little lower from the center. 



Look he can touch! 



And he made me touch. I was hungry so I didn't want to play. Token smile. 



One more bean shot. We're really small in this photo - last third of the picture... 



Hearing a concert here would've been pretty cool. We couldn't stayed and listened to the Grateful Dead at Soldier Field. Ha! We saw lots of dead heads walking around downtown... 



We ended up taking a pathway over the street to the top of the Art Institute. There was a restaurant up there but it looked too swanky. So we walked down to the street and out to the lake.  



I had really wanted to ride along the bike trail on Lakeshore Drive but the machine was messed up and the line was so long that we just decided to walk up to the Pier. It was a gorgeous day in the upper 70s. No clouds, gentle breeze, warm sun. Couldn't have asked for better. 



We had to cross the river by walking over that bridge.



On the bridge. Gosh, it was just so pretty. 



Here's the one photo I took. I like Chicago. 



Once we got to Navy Pier, I was about to faint of drama hungriness. It was an expensive place for everything but we found a gyro place in the food court that was quite reasonable and very yummy. Plus, gyros remind me of Chicago because my folks took us to one several times when we were little. I felt so much better after that. 

We thought it would be fun to take a boat ride on the lake or the river (and actually, I think I went on one of these when I was little), but we opted for the ferris wheel on Navy Pier. It was a lot cheaper. This is looking south as we went up the ferris wheel.



We are about on top. I was a little freaked out - forced smile. Must be getting old because I realize how thin the thread is that holds my life - I have four kids who need me! It was very pretty up there though.



Yep, at the top, looking west. 



 East across Lake Michigan.



Headed back down and looking north. 



After our ride we walked to the end of the pier and just sat on a bench looking at the water, birds, boats, people and beauty. I don't know what it was, but it was so peaceful and lovely right there. I wanted to stay there forever. And we did stay for a long time. 



Me with the 8 ton anchor at the end of the pier. Terry used to run down here all the time when he was training for marathons at Moody. I don't think I'd ever been here.



While we were walking back down the pier (which is a mile long), I saw people eating waffle cones of ice cream and it looked so dang good. So when I finally saw people coming out of an Hagen Dazs, we went in to get our own. $14 later, we came out with some fantastic ice cream cones. Terry was shocked at the price but I didn't care. That was so amazing ice cream! 

After the pier, we walked across the street to a a bike rental place called Divvy. There was a line but we waited patiently. Just as we were paying the machine broke. They were so busy that the system kept getting overwhelmed or something. It was just crazy downtown this day. It was Friday, July 3rd and I think a lot of people had the day off before Independence Day. Plus the Grateful Dead were in town and it was their farewell concert. Massive amounts of people. Actually, when we first started out walking downtown that day I was rather overwhelmed by it.

Anyway, Divvy bikes. Very touristy. You could rent a bike for the day for $7 only if you checked it back in at the next station and took another bike. So this particular station was probably the busiest one - all those people coming off Navy Pier and all. But we got our bikes and rode the Lake Shore trail north. It was perfect.



Our three speed bikes :) 



We missed the next station and went too far north. We rode several miles one way. So we had to turn around and find the station we missed and switch bikes. Pretty sure this was after that... 



How touristy are we? Taking photos while riding a rented bike? Ha! 



The trail was jam packed. It was actually a little treacherous because you had to swerve around people all the time. It was kind of fun that way though! 



I felt so alive this day. It was a wonderful day.



The runner in orange would pass us and then we'd pass him. He was intense. 
Such a pretty place. I didn't want to leave. I wanted to stay for a week and do it all over again. 



We left town around 5 to get back to the Fong's for dinner. Susanna had invited some old friends from Lakeside to get together with us there. The Hiyamas, Depaz's, and the two Daves - Uch and Wail. It had been 7 years since we'd seen any of them (or longer) so it was great to catch up. Such fun.



Perfect night for a fire.



It was all just lovely!



After everyone left we helped the Fongs shuck corn for their church picnic the next day, which was the 4th of July and then headed to bed.


We weren't sure what our plan was for the next day. Either we could stay all day and drive the entire 14 hours on Sunday or we would split up the drive between Saturday and Sunday. We decided to go to the church picnic and see some old friends and then leave afterward. I got to visit with Arlene, Dave's wife I clicked with at camp 7 years ago, but Terry talked to nearly everyone. Everywhere he goes everyone loves him. He's so lovable like that. I feel blessed that he picked me because I'm totally not like that. Too shy and blunt.

After the picnic we started the trek home. We listened to lots of U2 and several Stand to Reason podcasts. We stayed the night in LaCrosse, WI at a little motel. It was Independence Day but since it wasn't our town or anything, we went to the theater and watched Jurassic World. It was awesome. The next day we drove all the way back home and rescued my mom from the kids. What a great vacation we had, thanks to Terry! Love him!

Thursday, July 16, 2015

our secret vacation

I have this text from Terry saved in my phone dated April 21, 2015:
"Hey Hunny Bunny! Got a surprise for u!!! We, u and me, will go on a trip July 1st and will get back home July 4th or 5th. Destination: secret!!!"

You can imagine my excitement. It seemed like a long time since we had more than just an occasional (every other month or so) evening for just the two of us. Getting away for a few days sounded amazing. My desire for a get-away was further intensified while he was on his two-week mission trip. I texted him towards the end asking if it was time to go yet. Then he got back and time seemed to drag on until it was time to go. And somehow when the day came to leave, it felt strange. 

So we set out Wednesday July 1st and I had no real clue where we were going. Oh yes, I had guesses, but nothing substantial. There was one point I thought I overheard a answering machine message at Terry parents indicating some kind of resort vacation. That sounded incredible and just the sort of sneaky thing Terry would do - book some free vacation through his dad, like something he won in a raffle. But after talking with Shari, I realized it was probably just spam, which it was. That narrowed my guesses. 

When we drove away, we went north on Deadwood Avenue, and I thought, "Yep, we're going to the cabin in Montana." But he swerved onto the east I-90 exit at the last moment and took us the opposite direction. Okay then, no cabin. When we came to the next exit, he put on his blinker and started getting off the interstate to head back into town towards West Boulevard. Okay, I reasoned we were either going to Denver or Nebraska. And then he pulled out of that lane, for goodness sakes! After that he just stayed on I-90 east out of town and I got comfortable in my seat. When we came to Murdo he nearly headed south to Gburg, but again swerved east to the interstate. Geesh. No Nebraska. When we came to Sioux Falls, he went right through. That was my last guess. We went halfway through Minnesota before stopping in Albert Lea for gas and dinner. I thought this was our destination and was confused. What the heck was there? He finally gave me a little hint - this was not our final destination; we would only spend the night here and continue on the next day.

After eating at Applebees, we stopped at this E-Free church where we used to rendezvous when we were dating. I would drive four hours from SDSU to Albert Lea and park my car in this parking lot. While Terry would drive six hours from Chicago to meet me there and take me to Chicago with him. We did this several times during 2002-2003 while we dated. Poor sweet Terry would drive 24 hours in one weekend so we could hang out. It used to make me feel guilty, but now I'm free enough that it's so sweet.
Albert Lea E-Free church, 13 years later.


I secretly believed that we were going to see Tim Hawkins perform live somewhere in the vague midwest. Tim Hawkins is a comedian we really like and there were several clues along the way that seemed to line up with that guess. Terry kept making Tim Hawkins jokes; like a lot of them. Then a student texted him a photo of Tim Hawkins. Terry also had me look up his schedule on his phone. There was no dates until like July 15th, but I thought that meant his current schedule was full and not listed anymore - Terry's way of keeping me off the scent. So I believed that the next day we would go to the Twin Cities or some random place in Wisconsin to see Tim Hawkins.

The next day we continued east, past where we would have turned north for the twin cities. After that I was sure we were either going to Chicago or somewhere in Wisconsin. We headed into Chicago, hit traffic and Terry wouldn't even stop for a bathroom break, though I really needed one! We were going to be late and his phone kept taking us the wrong way, though we were headed downtown. Finally we came to some parking lots with people walking all over the place and parking attendants directing cars where to go. "Strange," I thought, "that they should make all this fuss for Tim Hawkins..." Oh how very wrong I was.

We pulled around this huge arena whose sign was projecting images of U2.
We were seeing U2 at the United Center!!!
Terry got us a really good parking spot.

I was extremely shocked that this was what we were doing. I was having a hard time believing it! U2 was not on my radar in the slightest. No wonder he had us listen to the new album while we were driving...

 Inside was utter craziness. People everywhere. It was overwhelming for me because I was already overwhelmed. So crazy! Terry pulled me over to this poster and confirmed that Yes, we were seeing U2. I needed it to be said because I was so convinced we were seeing Tim Hawkins. So here's us with Bono ;)



Seats of course are very expensive so we were in the nosebleeds section, but that was fine by me. And actually, we were actually closer to the stage than four years ago in Denver, though those were better seats for the stadium size. Weird. Also, the sound in there was a lot louder than in the open Denver stadium. During the concert my hearing kept going in and out. 



They were supposed to start at 730 but because they're rock stars, they didn't begin until 830. The crowd around the stage was standing room only, of course. Terry had a friend from college down there. He saw all five nights! 



Boom baby!!! 



They opened with The Miracle (of Joey Ramone), which is one of the new albums more upbeat songs: 



Then they did Gloria (an old one I hadn't heard), Vertigo, I Will Follow, and Iris (Hold Me Close), which is about Bono's mother:



Cedarwood Road was next. Oh, and the LED screen was super cool. It projected whatever picture of video but here, below, Bono is walking inside of it as if he's on Cedarwood Road, which was his street in Dublin. Sort of like walking inside a TV but being a part of the image.



Petals flying...



Song for Someone. 



A slower version of Sunday Bloody Sunday (below), with all the victims of that car bomb projected on the houses. Following was Raised by Wolves. 



Next was Until the End of the World, which has got to be my favorite song of theirs. I love The Edge guitar part. Makes me want to jump!



I love that song so much that I'll include 2 videos! :P



Invisible, with the whole band in the box.



Then there was Even Better Than the Real Thing and Mysterious Ways where they pulled at girl up onto the stage to dance with Bono, like always. But it was funny the way she got up there. She was sort of dumped unceremoniously onto the stage in a pile. She made up for it with her hotness later ;)

I always feel embarrassed when taking selfies, but it's nice to see ourselves there. We were there! It was strange that the concert seemed even better after it was over. When we watched Terry's recorded clips or listened to the CD again in the car, I was like, "That concert was so awesome!"


The rest of the list was California (There is no End to Love), Ordinary Love, Every Breaking Wave, Bullet the Blue Sky, Pride (In The Name of Love), Beautiful Day, With or Without You...


The Edge belting it out. I love that.



Not sure which song, but Terry managed to get a couple good shots. Adam Clayton being all cool.



This was the beginning of Beautiful Day...



"You thought you'd found a friend to take you out of this place
Someone you could lend a hand in return for grace..."



"It's a beautiful day, the sky falls
And you feel like it's a beautiful day..."



More coolness



Light it up.



Here they are pretending to be done. We all knew they'd be back.



One cool thing about cell phones at concerts... While we were waiting for the Encore, everyone shone their cellphone flashlight around. It was soooo bright and pretty.



Here is our last video, The City of Blinding Lights. They also did Where the Streets Have No Name and 40 (from Psalm 40). They walked out to everyone singing to them "How long to sing this song." It was amazing. So cool.


Props to my wonderful husband for pulling off this surprise. It was a great concert and we had such a good time. Wahoo!

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Thorin, I love you

No, I don't mean the King Under the Mountain, Thorin Oakenshield (The Hobbit, come on folks). I was referring to my brother's new dog named after said dwarf. Meet Thorin, a goldendoodle puppy.



Nathan and Ana got him some time last month, in June, when he was 7 or 8 weeks old. He might have smelled like a barn, but we didn't care. He's so floppy! I fell in love with him.



I feel exactly like Agnes in Despicable Me. He's so fluffy I'm gonna die!!!




Last week I took the kids over to Nathan's house to see the work he's accomplished on his projects (they're selling their house to move to MN for a new youth pastor position). Then I dognapped Thorin and took him to the park with us. He's as big as Snap now! 



I hiked the two of them up to the overlook. 



He doesn't look too pleased with me, perhaps because I made him work too hard for the little puppy that he still is. He was so tired when I brought him home. 



It was hard to pose the two dogs next to each other with the park in the background... I was going for a size comparison. 



You can see Samuel up ahead waiting for me to help him into the bathroom. I was more concerned with the puppy! 



He's so incredibly adorable. Look how fluffy his fur is! I want him to stay a puppy forever. Alas, Nathan and Ana and Theo and Thorin are leaving in just a few weeks :( 



See? I wore him out. Poor Thorin. Poor adorable puppy.